From the jacket, I didn't realize how much of this book would be about Faith and our relationships with God. Being agnostic, I found those parts were a little excessive. Aside from that and a little redundancy towards the end of his stay at the monastery, I found his memoir pretty fascinating. My parents live in an area with a fairly dense Mennonite and Amish population. I've always wondered why they embraced some technologies and not others. Willis' explanation about how they are worried some of those technologies, like television, would pull engagement away from the community that is the core value in their culture was enlightening. The book has inspired me to cut out all social media platforms (except for storygraph!) for a week. We will see how it goes!
This book was so good! I had fun reading it. It was like the most deranged game of clue. I had no idea what was happening when until the very end. Love love loved!
There was definitely more to the book than I expected. Good story, although it seemed maybe a little rushed? I feel like the author could have made it so much better with a little more something, maybe added to the list of characters or plot? I think the whole thing with Laurens daughter, the smiling lady, and the ex's grandmother being the one to take her was an easy way to wrap up that story end. And then, was Millie in on it? She randomly went to school with the girl that was murdered but Seth randomly picked Millie's boss (who she had an affair with) as his first murder victim? It's like the author started with one ending in mind and changed it half way through. & How did Seth get into Millie's house without being on camera? I also would have liked to see Tom's character have developed a little more. Maybe be involved in getting Seth psychiatric help.
I found it very easy to read as a lot of Cait's life experience is relatable to my own. It made me take an excruciating look at my heaping stacks of miscellaneous crap with genuine concern and inspired me to start my own great purge. I haven't started a shopping ban yet, but throwing out as much as I have in the past couple weeks, I have reconsidered buying a few things. Especially the stuff I'll likely never use anyhow. I'm glad I read the year of less & recommend to anyone who may be starting to feel a little bogged down with material things.
Having been through my share of bad relationships, my attention was initially grabbed by the title. My morbid curiosity hoping to find any kind of camaraderie in the tales of some heinous man who commits truly unspeakable acts of betrayal against his wife. & I did find those stories but ultimately, this is a story about grief. Mortifyingly honest grief. I wasn't expecting it and probably would not have picked it up had I known, but I really enjoyed this book. I feel I gained both life perspective and a broadened empathy for those who've experienced this intimate of a loss. Memoirs aren't normally my thing but this one was worth it.
I feel like I may have enjoyed this book more if the adam and eve narrative wasn't as obvious. I'm not quite sure what the message is. That men do not see woman beyond their primitive value? Men throw away/destroy relationships for new when they don't go exactly their way? They are just jerks all around? I Reminded me a little of the movie Mother, I didn't love that either.
Cute ghost story! Good feels & super fast read (if you have an hour to kill,) I highly recommend! The families reaction to the ghost reminded me of the original Beetlejuice movie. .