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How We Learn to Be Brave: Decisive Moments in Life and Faith by Mariann Edgar Budde
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
relaxing
slow-paced
4.0
Mariann Edgar Budde, the Episcopal Bishop of Washington, gained national attention when she stood with grace and courage in opposition to Donald Trump during a controversial moment in 2020. In How We Learn to Be Brave, Budde draws on her experiences as a leader, pastor, and spiritual guide to explore how individuals can cultivate courage and face fear in their lives.
Spoiler-Free Synopsis
This book is a call to action for those who feel weighed down by fear, anxiety, or a sense of inadequacy. Budde blends personal anecdotes, theological reflection, and practical advice to illustrate how bravery isn't something innate but something we grow into. Whether facing personal struggles or societal challenges, she encourages readers to embrace vulnerability, lean into discomfort, and find strength in community and spiritual grounding. While deeply rooted in Christian theology, the book's overarching message of resilience and hope transcends religious boundaries, making it a guide for anyone seeking to live with greater courage.
Notable Quote
"True courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s the willingness to move forward, one step at a time, even when fear is present."
What I Learned from How We Learn to Be Brave:
- Courage Is a Practice: Bravery isn't about being fearless. It’s about showing up in the face of fear and taking small, intentional steps forward.
- The Power of Community: Surrounding yourself with supportive people—whether they share your faith or simply your values—can be transformative in moments of doubt or anxiety.
- Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: The book offers practical tips for managing panic and anxiety, which helped me feel more prepared to face my own challenges without resorting to avoidance.
My Thoughts
As someone who approaches religion with a “live and let live” philosophy, I initially hesitated to dive into a Christian book. However, Budde’s grace, intelligence, and humanity inspired me to give it a shot. While some religious elements didn’t resonate with me, the practical wisdom about facing fear and embracing bravery struck a chord. Her insights helped me reframe how I manage my anxiety and panic attacks, offering tools to navigate them with a sense of calm I didn’t know I could muster.
Final Rating
4/5 stars. The book loses a star for its heavy focus on religious aspects, which didn’t always align with my perspective. Still, Budde’s overarching messages of resilience, self-awareness, and finding strength in adversity are universal. I recommend this book to anyone seeking encouragement on their journey to bravery. It’s a valuable resource, no matter your background or beliefs.
Mr. Mercedes by Stephen King
Synopsis (Spoiler-Free)
The story begins with a horrifying crime: a driver in a stolen Mercedes plows through a crowd of job seekers, leaving devastation in his wake. Years later, the retired detective Bill Hodges is haunted by the unsolved case, but when the psychopathic killer, Brady Hartsfield, taunts him with a letter, Bill is pulled back into the hunt. Aided by an unlikely team—including the eccentric and brilliant Holly Gibney—Hodges races against time to stop Brady before he strikes again.
Holly Gibney shines as a standout character. Her struggles with mental health, including anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, are portrayed with nuance and authenticity. She’s not only relatable but deeply inspiring, especially for readers who see their own challenges reflected in her character.
Highlights of What I Learned from Mr. Mercedes
A Favorite Quote
“You can’t kill hope. You can’t kill it even when you want to. Even when it’s all you have left, hope is still there like a seed, waiting for you to find it.”
This quote encapsulates the heart of the story: the perseverance and humanity that can endure even in the face of overwhelming darkness.
Reflections
As someone who usually steers clear of the crime thriller genre, Mr. Mercedes was a revelation. The fast-paced narrative, vivid characters, and relentless suspense made it impossible to put down. It’s not just a thriller—it’s a story of human resilience. Holly Gibney, in particular, left a profound impact on me. As someone who also grapples with anxiety and depression, I felt deeply seen and validated by her portrayal. She was not just a character; she was a reflection of my own experiences, woven into a narrative of hope and empowerment.
That said, Mr. Mercedes isn’t for the faint of heart. Its disturbing content can be anxiety-inducing, so sensitive readers should approach it with caution. Trigger warnings for violence, mass murder, psychological manipulation, and suicidal ideation are worth noting.
Final Thoughts
Stephen King’s foray into crime thrillers proves his unparalleled ability to craft compelling stories in any genre. Mr. Mercedes is a masterclass in suspense and character development, earning a well-deserved 5/5 stars. It’s not just a book—it’s a gateway into a gripping trilogy that promises to keep readers enthralled. I can’t wait to dive into the next installment and see what lies ahead for Bill Hodges and his team.
If you’re looking for a book that will hook you from the start and challenge your perspective on heroism, resilience, and mental health, Mr. Mercedes is an absolute must-read.
dark
mysterious
tense
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Stephen King ventures into the world of crime thrillers with Mr. Mercedes, the first book in the Bill Hodges Trilogy, and delivers a riveting story that grips you from the opening scene and doesn’t let go until the very last page. Known for his mastery of horror, King showcases his versatility by weaving a gripping tale of suspense, psychological depth, and relentless tension in this genre departure.
Synopsis (Spoiler-Free)
The story begins with a horrifying crime: a driver in a stolen Mercedes plows through a crowd of job seekers, leaving devastation in his wake. Years later, the retired detective Bill Hodges is haunted by the unsolved case, but when the psychopathic killer, Brady Hartsfield, taunts him with a letter, Bill is pulled back into the hunt. Aided by an unlikely team—including the eccentric and brilliant Holly Gibney—Hodges races against time to stop Brady before he strikes again.
Holly Gibney shines as a standout character. Her struggles with mental health, including anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, are portrayed with nuance and authenticity. She’s not only relatable but deeply inspiring, especially for readers who see their own challenges reflected in her character.
Highlights of What I Learned from Mr. Mercedes
- Mental Health Representation: Holly Gibney’s portrayal is a masterclass in empathy. Her anxiety and quirks are written with respect, offering a rare glimpse of a character who battles mental health challenges while showing immense strength and growth. It’s a reminder of the importance of understanding and embracing individuality.
- Unconventional Heroes: The trio of Hodges, Holly, and Jerome Robinson exemplifies that strength comes in many forms. None of them fit the classic hero mold, but together they form an unforgettable team with complementary strengths and vulnerabilities.
- The Nature of Evil: Through Brady Hartsfield, King explores the banality of evil, reminding readers that monsters often lurk in plain sight. Brady’s chilling manipulation and everyday facade underline how psychological darkness can hide behind a mask of normalcy.
A Favorite Quote
“You can’t kill hope. You can’t kill it even when you want to. Even when it’s all you have left, hope is still there like a seed, waiting for you to find it.”
This quote encapsulates the heart of the story: the perseverance and humanity that can endure even in the face of overwhelming darkness.
Reflections
As someone who usually steers clear of the crime thriller genre, Mr. Mercedes was a revelation. The fast-paced narrative, vivid characters, and relentless suspense made it impossible to put down. It’s not just a thriller—it’s a story of human resilience. Holly Gibney, in particular, left a profound impact on me. As someone who also grapples with anxiety and depression, I felt deeply seen and validated by her portrayal. She was not just a character; she was a reflection of my own experiences, woven into a narrative of hope and empowerment.
That said, Mr. Mercedes isn’t for the faint of heart. Its disturbing content can be anxiety-inducing, so sensitive readers should approach it with caution. Trigger warnings for violence, mass murder, psychological manipulation, and suicidal ideation are worth noting.
Final Thoughts
Stephen King’s foray into crime thrillers proves his unparalleled ability to craft compelling stories in any genre. Mr. Mercedes is a masterclass in suspense and character development, earning a well-deserved 5/5 stars. It’s not just a book—it’s a gateway into a gripping trilogy that promises to keep readers enthralled. I can’t wait to dive into the next installment and see what lies ahead for Bill Hodges and his team.
If you’re looking for a book that will hook you from the start and challenge your perspective on heroism, resilience, and mental health, Mr. Mercedes is an absolute must-read.