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All the Living and the Dead by Hayley Campbell

alicebme's review against another edition

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I read about half of this book. I found it very interesting, but I’m perhaps not in a great headspace for it right now. Also the library needs it back.

csobolewski's review against another edition

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dark emotional informative mysterious reflective sad medium-paced

buffwellington's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful informative medium-paced

4.5

lkremmel's review against another edition

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5.0

I had high expectations for this book... and it exceeded them! What I expected was an informative, well-researched, respectful, inquisitive look into a variety of deathcare avenues, and it absolutely provides. What I was pleasantly surprised to discover right from the introduction was how much the personal introspection and commentary of the author added to my own experience of learning about each type of work. I'm used to reading academic books and would otherwise be disappointed to not find more theoretical and historical approaches combined with the investigative journalism, but I was not. I've also read other pop social science books like this (on this same topic) that have gone overboard on the personal commentary to the point where they were patronizing to the people they were interviewing and the belief systems they were reporting on. I find that inexcusably insulting and off-putting. Hayley Campbell's book is the perfect blend of personal vulnerability and in-depth journalism. I would love to teach this some day.

msreadsoften's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark emotional reflective medium-paced

4.25

bry_gahan's review against another edition

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4.0

Super interesting dive into different death jobs. Surprisingly tender!

erinkelly636's review against another edition

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informative medium-paced

4.0

jaithur's review against another edition

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dark informative reflective sad fast-paced

4.5

dustyb19's review

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced

4.0

velvetflame's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

4.5

This was phenomenally written! As a death worker myself, I had low expectations going in. Our work is so often sensationalized, or written about by folks who’ve seen or done a small amount in the field, and write surface level content about death care like they are the ultimate experts on everything.  Campbell does the opposite- it seems she goes into each interview underscoring any personal knowledge, and instead allows every death care worker she interviews to be the expert in their own field, tying the different stories together beautifully, with personal reflexions and emotions woven throughout.  This is a beautifully executed narrative on mortality, the way the world views death, (or rather, doesn’t view death) and the quiet professionals behind the scenes taking care of all aspects of death. 

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