I think that this is a great idea for a book, but the way it was presented was really shallow. I don't think that the self-assessments were very good either; they seemed like reading comprehension questions. I think that Singer was very fair and open-minded about the issue, and maybe this book has helped some people, but I wasn't crazy about it.

I did not read it thoroughly but had a look at the self assessment parts and some stories. I tried to read it from a feminist perspective and didn't really think about me personally which is why I left more confused than I arrived. Growing up is weird, I am really not ready yet!...

This book gives a good overview of different considerations one should make before having a baby.
I missed a part about alternative family concepts. I also wanted more information on what could go wrong and when it is important to get professional help rather than "everything will be fine somehow as long as you talk it through".
The author tried to be nonjudgmental about some aspects and incorporated scientific background which I appreciate. I sometimes wished for more in depth considerations and clear advice.

I picked up this book for the self-tests, consulted the table of contents and breezed through two sections, then decided 'why not' and read the remainder of this quick, to-the-point book. It's best for organizing the thoughts and information you likely already have and encouraging you to reflect with your partner. It's a useful tool of discernment, reminding us that the only exhaustive tool is within ourselves and that any decision should not be based on a set number or preconceived goal.