I picked up this book for the self-tests, consulted the table of contents and breezed through two sections, then decided 'why not' and read the remainder of this quick, to-the-point book. It's best for organizing the thoughts and information you likely already have and encouraging you to reflect with your partner. It's a useful tool of discernment, reminding us that the only exhaustive tool is within ourselves and that any decision should not be based on a set number or preconceived goal.