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 As a cis woman, I’ve always seen my gender reflected back at me without question. Gender Euphoria expanded my perspective, celebrating the joy of trans and nonbinary people being seen as they truly are.

Too often, gender discussions focus on struggle, but this book highlights moments of pure happiness—being called the right name, wearing affirming clothes, or experiencing transition as liberation. These essays reminded me how universal the need for recognition is and how vital it is to support gender-affirming spaces.

This collection is an invitation to listen, learn, and celebrate trans joy. Eye-opening and uplifting, Gender Euphoria is a must-read. 

 

I absolutely adored For Her Consideration, so I was excited to dive into At Her Service—but unfortunately, this one fell a little flat for me. I think a big part of that is how young our main character, Max, is. New Adult books can be hit or miss for me, and this one reminded me why: the impulsive decisions, the selfish behavior, the kind of simple mistakes we all make in our 20s… it just gets under my skin. 

That said, there were still things I really enjoyed, especially the way this book celebrates queer community and honors the history of queer spaces. Those moments felt so intentional and heartfelt, adding a richness to the story that kept me engaged even when I was frustrated with Max. 

Overall, while this one didn’t fully work for me, I still love the way Spalding writes queer romance, and I’ll absolutely pick up whatever she writes next. 

Listen, if you’re picking up the New York Ruthless series expecting deep character introspection or personal growth, put it back down and walk away. You will learn absolutely nothing about yourself—except, perhaps, that you have a higher tolerance for toxic masculinity than you previously thought. This series is dirty, a little unhinged, and defies all logic (seriously, the frequency of orgasms alone is medically suspect).

And yet… I cannot stop reading.

The plot? Exists, technically. The men? Possessive, dangerous, and lacking any real self-awareness. The steam? Off the charts and completely ridiculous. But if you’re looking for an escape into a world where morality is optional, love is obsessive, and the action (in every sense of the word) never stops, this series delivers.

Is it making me dumber? Probably. Am I mad about it? Not at all.

Listen, if you’re picking up the New York Ruthless series expecting deep character introspection or personal growth, put it back down and walk away. You will learn absolutely nothing about yourself—except, perhaps, that you have a higher tolerance for toxic masculinity than you previously thought. This series is dirty, a little unhinged, and defies all logic (seriously, the frequency of orgasms alone is medically suspect).

And yet… I cannot stop reading.

The plot? Exists, technically. The men? Possessive, dangerous, and lacking any real self-awareness. The steam? Off the charts and completely ridiculous. But if you’re looking for an escape into a world where morality is optional, love is obsessive, and the action (in every sense of the word) never stops, this series delivers.

Is it making me dumber? Probably. Am I mad about it? Not at all.

Listen, if you’re picking up the New York Ruthless series expecting deep character introspection or personal growth, put it back down and walk away. You will learn absolutely nothing about yourself—except, perhaps, that you have a higher tolerance for toxic masculinity than you previously thought. This series is dirty, a little unhinged, and defies all logic (seriously, the frequency of orgasms alone is medically suspect).

And yet… I cannot stop reading.

The plot? Exists, technically. The men? Possessive, dangerous, and lacking any real self-awareness. The steam? Off the charts and completely ridiculous. But if you’re looking for an escape into a world where morality is optional, love is obsessive, and the action (in every sense of the word) never stops, this series delivers.

Is it making me dumber? Probably. Am I mad about it? Not at all.

 As an adult reader, The Secrets to Become Confident and Courageous offered essentially no groundbreaking insights. The advice is familiar—things like believing in yourself, avoiding negative influences, and setting goals. While this is fine for a beginner’s introduction to confidence, it doesn’t provide much depth or fresh perspective for anyone who has already encountered these concepts.

Given that this book is geared toward teens, I had hoped for a writing style that would actually engage them. Instead, the tone feels generic and uninspired, lacking the relatability that could make a real impact on a younger audience. It reads more like a list of generic self-help tips rather than something dynamic or conversational that teens would actually connect with.

While the intent is admirable, I can’t help but think most teens will find it dull and uninspiring.

If you're an adult looking for guidance to help mentor a teen, you won’t find anything new here. And if you’re a teen looking for motivation, you might be better off seeking advice from more engaging books, podcasts, or even social media content that speaks your language. 

I keep trying to read New Adult College Romances, but I just do not love them. 

As a Swiftie, I liken AWAKE: Poetry for the Healing to the way Taylor Swift’s lyrics break me open in all the best ways. Felicia Clark’s poetry is raw, resonant, and deeply personal, yet it has a universal pull that makes you feel like she’s speaking directly to your soul.

With unflinching honesty, Clark explores trauma, healing, and self-discovery, guiding readers through the weight of mental health struggles, grief, and resilience. Just like when I dissect Taylor’s lyrics, I found myself so pulled in and intrigued that I was googling, searching for the depth and meaning hidden within Clark’s words. Every poem felt like a puzzle piece, fitting together to form a journey of pain, reflection, and ultimately, hope.

AWAKE reminds us that even in our darkest moments, we can find light, strength, and understanding within ourselves and the words of others.

An erotic novel with an actual plot -- sure it's not entirely deep but still a good read for when you want some fun spice.

Slow and emotional and chock full of baseball. Once I submitted to having to listen to a bunch about a sport I don't entirely care about, I did really enjoy the book. This isn't the fun, quirky, spicy reads I usually gravitate towards but its heart and depth are worth the read.