This book is a must for any spouse of an adult ADHD sufferer. Enlightening, perceptive and covers a lot of ground. Adhd can be a destructive force in marriage and other primary relationships. This book provides understanding, strategies, and hope. It is focused primarily on the partners of individuals with ADHD and their unique and often overlooked needs.

I did not give this book five stars for two reasons. 1) the author makes excessive use of third-person quotes and anecdotes, all from a "survey" of people in ADHD support groups. Personally I did not find these quotations convincing--they all seemed to have the same, unrealistic voice. I would have prefered fewer quotations and more prose from the author's viewpoint and expertise. 2) the Audible narrator was obnoxious and paronizing, particularly when reading the quotations mentioned above.