i read approx 40% of the book (skimming a bit) and then i gave up on finding anything of use and just read a little bit here and there to get the gist. could be interesting for teens, i suppose. 

i just think i have seen/read deeper, better takes on all of these issues, online, for free, in queer communties. or like, not even that because so much of it is just life... (hence my "if you're v young you might enjoy this") on that note, much of what i read in the last chapter i disagreed with, so i just think me and the author have deeply different ways to live and be in the world. (diversity win!)

ps. tiktok didn't invent queer online community though, keep that in mind. the queer nerds have been online since the moment we could. come to tumblr, it's much more fun.

disclaimer: book obtained via Netgalley. This review is frelly given and reflects my true thoughts.