Whew! Where do I even begin? The first couple of chapters had me thinking I wasn’t going to like this book, but that feeling quickly faded as I kept reading! By the time I reached the last 100 pages, I was trying to stop myself from crying. Monique, Sasha, and Reggie are the perfect example of how different personalities can come together to form such a beautiful, dynamic friend group! I absolutely love Sasha DOWNNNNNNN—she’s the perfect representation of how people’s preconceived notions about what a “church girl” should be like are often based on stereotypes. Everyone’s relationship with God is personal and unique; no two are the same. I honestly believe God gave Sasha a gift to help others in such a genuine, heartfelt way.

I could also relate to some of the struggles Monique faced, especially when it comes to being a people pleaser. In high school, I used to cuss like a sailor—not because it came naturally to me, but because I felt like that’s what my friend group expected. The truth is, I’ve never had the desire to curse, and I never

enjoyed it. It took me until my early twenties to fully embrace who I am and be at peace with it.

As for Monique’s parents, I really sympathize with anyone who has a strained relationship with the church due to negative experiences that have led them to feel disconnected from God. I think Monique’s parents, especially her dad, made both Monique and her sister feel that way for a while. But what really stood out to me was how Monique’s mom really pulled through for her daughter in the end. It was powerful to see how, despite her own struggles, she finally came through with the support Monique needed—showing that healing and understanding can come even after deep wounds. Her mom’s redemption made such a huge impact and was a testament to the power of love and growth in relationships.

Reggie’s character really stood out to me as well. Despite being the textbook “bad boy,” I think we all need a Reggie in our lives—a person who can help us step out of our shells while also teaching us to be comfortable with who we are.

I’m so glad I decided to pick up this book. It not only brought me back to moments in my life I used to be ashamed of, but it also helped me rediscover the importance of embracing those experiences as part of my journey.