A review by dbguide2
Rules For Ghosting by Shelly Jay Shore

emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

For some reason I’d been putting this off. I can’t explain or understand why because as soon as I started this I was invested. Ezra and Jonathan were two stunning main characters and I’m so glad we got to go on their journeys with them. I liked that both were doulas at two entirely different stages of life – Ezra being at birth and Jonathan being at death. It’s interesting and can take a lot of avenues. Shelly Jay Shore did a good job with both of their jobs.

I highlighted so many quotes in my arc. There were so many good lines regarding grief and emotions. Growing up, finding yourself. I probably couldn’t even find a favourite one because I love so many. The author really did a good job exploring and talking about grief. I really like it when the theme of grief is handled well – to me it shows the author is able to handle difficult themes/topics well. I liked the friendship group and the roles they played in both of their lives – how they all were friends so it wasn’t awkward. It took me a while to like Ezra’s family but once I really got into the book I liked them more. 

The romance was just so sweet and I’m now following the author because I need to know when their next book will be out. I’m a full fan now, I want them to write a hundred more books. I found myself grinning a lot throughout this and their transition from friends to lovers was ever so sweet. I also liked that they were friends first before getting together – I think I’m starting to like friends to lovers more? I’m finding it’s the writing and characters that definitely makes or breaks it (me liking the trope in a specific book). This book had that in spades.