the bells offer beautiful and practical ways to show up in your relationship. in their reflection of "zim zum" they provide ways to nurture marriage while honoring the mystery and reality of its challenges. i appreciate that they cover still being a individual in marriage and how partners can continue to foster independence and growth together. i do feel like the message is more geared toward conservative christians that have an unhealthy and one-sided view of marriage where the wife is merely there to "support" or look pretty. for that kind of audience I can see how this message of mutual respect is radical.