Samantha Irby is amazing and funnier than 99.99% of men I've ever read or talked to and that's because creates space to hear about things like adopting a cat that doesn't like her, poop and pee, period blood, racist microaggressions at the movie theater, and her wife all within the same essay collection. Read this book as soon as you can. Better yet, listen to the audiobook so she can tell you about how she sees the world.