You learn from this book. You realize something as you go through this book about how love works, makes you feel, and how it can break you as easily as how you started. If you are looking for something to give you a little push or if you cannot speak up to someone about your emotions, I think you should try this book. It helped me sort out my feelings, much more of a wake-up call on love, but this is not the book that I would always go back to. I love how it had emphasized the importance of women. Do not belittle yourself just because you are a woman in love. You can do more. You are worth it.