A review by psychohobbit
On Balance by Adam Phillips

2.0

For a book On Balance, I don't think it was achieved. The focus was on excess and I can accept that excess is the opposite of balance and understanding excess produces an understanding a balance. The author did a solid argument as to why excess is necessary. Then things devolved (in my opinion) to psychobabble and Freudian-focused at that. I did gain some insight and realized when reading this, that persecution of the Jewish people in Europe even during Freud's lifetime must have influenced his work, which probably would have still had a heavily sexual bent but the persecution adding to the twisted, not being accepted theme. That just goes to show how terrible racism and its results are. Drawing from Freud's and one of his daughter's, Anna Freud, works, I found myself grateful that the author was not my psychoanalyst (not that I use one). For example, the last part of the book was examining fairy tales like Jack in the Beanstalk and Cinderella. Granted, these presented his interpretation but perhaps how an adult (who obviously wrote them) would interpret. Personally, I think these are tales for children about obedience, mischief that happens when one does not follow instructions, and since it's a fairy tale, all ends well. This author sees it quite a bit differently such as erections can be considered magic to a child (that puts a whole new spin in that beanstalk doesn't it). I was really glad to finally finish this book.