So, this book is a *little bit* about Benedict Cumberbatch, but it is actually a much deeper book about women letting themselves find joy and not feeling bad about it. I really liked Tabitha Carvan's writing (though I do sort of wish I had listened to this one in audio to get the Australian accent), and I enjoyed the intermixing of her personal experience with academic insights. I can see how this might not be the book for everyone, but it really spoke to me.