ok so i really wanted to like this book. unfortunately, i just could not. i really tried to ignore the format of the footnotes and main text being cut off so flipping pages becomes extra complicated. if that was one of the main points of the book, could they not have spent some time thinking about the readability of this? secondly, i found the author to be increasingly unlikable. i don’t know. i feel bad shitting on somebody’s memoir, but i would not recommend this book to anyone.