I think I give this book five stars based on one of the first lines. He says something to the effect that if you are reading this book, you are doing okay. He writes of when he was a mission president, the missionaries who heard his words and tried to improve were already in a good place. I know I need to be more aware of the atonement on a daily basis. I liked on part where a missionary spoke with him about past things he had repented of coming back to him. How Wilcox interpreted that as the missionary drawing closer to the Savior, how we shouldn't forget the things we don't want to repeat. But that we also need to forgive ourselves. Overall I felt there was a message of hope and that is a worthy read.