I really enjoyed this book! So many of the words in this book were exactly what I needed to hear. I was shocked at how many of Tremaine’s struggles and experiences—anxiety, religion, growing up in a small town—resonated with me. I felt seen and understood.

I grew up in a very small, rural town in Pennsylvania. I moved to the DC area for grad school and have lived here since. I’m far away from family, and it’s been really hard. Making friends seems nearly impossible, raising toddlers is the hardest job ever, and my anxiety has increased significantly over the past few years. And I’ve felt that even if I did make friends, I wouldn’t have much to offer. All in all, I’ve felt alone.

After reading this book, I know that I’m not alone. And that I have a lot to offer. I hope some of the advice helps me make true connections—in person and in the bookstagram community.

This isn’t your traditional “self-help” book. It’s 180 pages of getting to know Tremaine and questions to help you think about “your story”. I think a lot of people will benefit from reading this one!!