Maame was an incredibly therapeutic read for me. Coming from an African background but living in a non-African environment, it was refreshing and validating to encounter a character like Maddie, who resonated so closely with my own experiences—it almost felt like looking in a mirror. Maddie’s frustrations, her anxieties, and her growth were so relatable, and witnessing her journey was inspiring.

I also really appreciated the representation of bisexuality in the story. As a bisexual woman, seeing Maddie’s openness to learn and express herself with Alex, without judgment, was beautiful. It’s a dynamic that I long to see more of in real life, though sadly, we often face a world filled with judgment.

Beyond that, Maddie’s people-pleasing tendencies, her interactions with her parents, and her struggles with mental health hit home. It can be hard to validate these feelings, especially in a culture that’s still adjusting to accepting experiences of depression, anxiety, and sadness as real and important. Maame is a gentle but powerful reminder that it’s okay to prioritize self-growth and mental well-being, and it left me feeling understood and hopeful.

These quotes are some of my favorites from the book:

"My eloquence on reveals itself when I can take the time to think about what I want to say, write it down and edit it a few times before hitting Send." (We have anxiety babe.)

"Shu once said that brothers have a level of audacity sisters couldn't possibly reach -or get away with- even if they tried."

"All I know is their marriage has taught me many things but sadly it's mainly taught me what to avoid."

"Marry me?" (I am also this delusional!!)

"There's often a misconception that to be well-loved, the love has to come from multiple sources, when truthfully, one or two people can love you with the strength of ten"