A review by tersirat
The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks

challenging informative medium-paced

4.25

bell hooks has done it again. it points out the many ways patriarchy harms men, especially how it affects them at a young age. 

i just couldn't stop thinking about this quote and i think this quote will stay in mind for a LONG time: 

If a man is not willing to break patriarchal rules that say that he should never change—especially to satisfy someone else, particularly a female—then he will choose being right over being loved.