A review by sailorkchick
Everybody Fights: So Why Not Get Better at It? by Penn Holderness, Kim Holderness

5.0

Both Kim and Penn Holderness read their book Everybody Fights (with some author commentary thrown in that I loved).
The couple talks about certain fights in their lives and certain tools & tricks they have learned through 17 years of relationship and counseling. Often one will tell their perspective and then the other will tell their perspective.
They go over how to say things, mindsets, correct ways to respond to your partner's behavior.

I loved this book. I am getting married in 2 weeks and while I think my fiance and I have a very solid relationship, this novel got me to think even deeper about our behavior towards one another.
As my co-worker pointed out when I said I was reading this book "even if you don't have any large problems in your relationship, reading these kind of books gets you to think deeper and put in the work to keep the relationship going and growing".