A review by booktalkwithkarla
Murder by Family: The Incredible True Story of a Son's Treachery and a Father's Forgiveness by Kent Whitaker

emotional hopeful sad fast-paced

5.0

This is a true story written by a father who forgives his elder son for murdering his wife and younger son (and wounding him). 

Kent Whitaker writes honestly about the unbelievable events before during and after the murders which took place on December 10, 2003. The writing combines Whitaker’s experiences, Bible stories, and letters written by Bart, which give insight into the depth of darkness Bart walked. 

It is not often that the psychology of the criminal is explored, and that is my kryptonite. This book shows the power of faith, community, and forgiveness to invite change spiritually and emotionally. Whitaker’s humility and faith shine brightly as he points people to God’s saving power and provision. It’s weird to say I love a book about murder. But this book is much more about how God takes all things and redeems them for good. I loved this story and message. 

“But what lesson can we learn from my experience? Perhaps it is that we always have the power of choice: to trust or not to trust God and his Word.”

“Grief takes over your whole life, and it doesn’t just evaporate; you need to pass through every one of its dark rooms, and that takes time and effort.”