I don’t think I have ever felt so seen by a book before. To quote my own notes: I am Penelope and Penelope is me. I related so hard to their gender journey. They had such an amazing support network for it too, with their friends being so amazing. I especially loved Maria and Penelope’s friendship and how unconditionally they loved each other. Overall I was so invested and so proud of Penelope. I was also very invested in the romance. It was so sweet, and they were such a perfect match. I am so glad it was multi pov and I got each of their thoughts and feelings. They were both anxious and awkward, yet willing to put in the work. They also balanced each other well. I liked how they included their friends in the development of their relationship as well.  So for the most part this was such a wholesome read. However, there was some very intense angst that had me sobbing. It was so well written but heartbreaking. Thankfully there was an amazing, very happy and hopeful ending. So overall I adored this book and cannot recommend it enough.