I picked this book up after hearing Nikki Glaser discuss it on Sofia Franklyn’s podcast. At this point, nearly 30 years after it’s been written, it’s become a little outdated. The gendered language is problematic at times and it had me tuning out somewhat. However, I gave it 3 stars because I do feel like there is some good advice here about how to have healthy conversations, set boundaries, and express your needs within romantic relationships. The book is not a total loss, but needs to be read and examined critically by 21st century women.