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A review by the_lectorem
Comprehensive Guide to Co-Parenting With a Narcissist: Solutions to Protect Your Children, Maintain Boundaries, Prepare for Legal and Financial Battles, and Start Rebuilding by Lee Alexander
hopeful
informative
reflective
medium-paced
4.5
Comprehensive Guide to Co-Parenting With a Narcissist” by Lee Alexander dives deep into the complex dynamics between the narcissist parent’s influence on the children and their partner. I loved the author's straightforward approach to explaining narcissistic behaviour, its characteristics and the toxic impact it can have on the partner who has to bear that emotionally abusive and mentally tormenting behaviour. As the title suggests, this book doesn't address general people but has been specifically written for parents who are struggling with their narcissistic partner and want to safeguard their and their children's overall well-being and safety.
Being a Psychologist, I understand the sensitive nature of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Lee Alexander has made sure to handle the topic as sensitively as it's supposed to be. Instead of being submissive or surrendering to the Narcissistic treatment, which can damage emotional, mental and overall well-being, this book encourages the identification of narcissists' behaviours and manipulation techniques so that one can step back by setting boundaries and creating rules to take charge in their hands.
The environment, affection, love and treatment children receive during their developmental period are very crucial for them because they shape their personality, self-esteem and self-image. A narcissistic parent can negatively impact the children, and by addressing that, Lee Alexander has provided cautious measures that can help in mutually deciding certain DOs & DON'Ts behaviours around children.
Furthermore, this book or the author doesn't attempt to be a replacement for Mental health professionals; the author is well aware of the limitations of helping parents through a book, so she recommends seeking professional help whenever required.
This book doesn't just help with teaching effective ways of setting boundaries with a narcissistic partner to protect emotional and mental health. It also assists with navigating through financial rights and negotiations as well as suggesting practical ways of seeking legal assistance that can be in the favour of children. It's a concise and precise guide that can significantly help parents who struggle with dealing with their narcissistic partner.
Being a Psychologist, I understand the sensitive nature of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Lee Alexander has made sure to handle the topic as sensitively as it's supposed to be. Instead of being submissive or surrendering to the Narcissistic treatment, which can damage emotional, mental and overall well-being, this book encourages the identification of narcissists' behaviours and manipulation techniques so that one can step back by setting boundaries and creating rules to take charge in their hands.
The environment, affection, love and treatment children receive during their developmental period are very crucial for them because they shape their personality, self-esteem and self-image. A narcissistic parent can negatively impact the children, and by addressing that, Lee Alexander has provided cautious measures that can help in mutually deciding certain DOs & DON'Ts behaviours around children.
Furthermore, this book or the author doesn't attempt to be a replacement for Mental health professionals; the author is well aware of the limitations of helping parents through a book, so she recommends seeking professional help whenever required.
This book doesn't just help with teaching effective ways of setting boundaries with a narcissistic partner to protect emotional and mental health. It also assists with navigating through financial rights and negotiations as well as suggesting practical ways of seeking legal assistance that can be in the favour of children. It's a concise and precise guide that can significantly help parents who struggle with dealing with their narcissistic partner.