This novel has been added to my top books of 2024. It was that good. Lisa-Jo is an immaculate storyteller and I was so deeply invested in this story about family trauma and reconciliation, new experiences, historical injustices and self-discovery all wrapped into a memoir. 

Being born white in South Africa during apartheid while dealing with her mother’s death and father’s vitriol was clearly a painful yet eye-opening experience for her. Yet still, the beauty of love, friendship and forgiveness shone brightly. I don’t even know what more I can say except go read this, but please read the content warnings before you do.