A review by cwrose
Getting to 'i Do' by Sandra Harmon, Pat Allen

5.0

Probably one of the better dating books I've read.

Its primarily geared toward women, but it can relate to all genders and orientations. I like how she doesn't just say there's only one way to act, but she acknowledges that men and women are either masculine or feminine, and opposites attract. Therefore, if you're a masculine woman who likes to give and lead, you'll have a better relationship with a feminine man who likes to receive. She also gives some good pointers on effective communication and conflict resolution,.

It's also helped me see where I could be going wrong, as well, in the way I approached relationships, personally. The author also gives descriptions and tips on how to navigate the four phases of dating: Honeymoon, Imperfect, Negotiation, and Commitment.

Overall, a great read for anyone who is looking for a serious, committed relationship, and is willing to be open-minded, and learn new ways of relating to the opposite sex.