Habib’s memoir takes us on a profound and enlightening journey, tracing their life from her early years as an Ahmadi Muslim child in Pakistan to her identity as a young queer Muslim adult who immigrated to Canada. This book is a remarkable and beautiful exploration of self-discovery. Habib skillfully guides the reader through the myriad challenges they faced, not only as a Muslim woman but also upon her self-realization as a queer Muslim.

The memoir delves into themes of spirituality, art, activism, and queerness, weaving a narrative that is both personal and universally resonant. Habib offers many poignant insights throughout her story, and here are a few of my favorites:

- “Representation is a critical way for people to recognize that their experiences - even if invisible in the mainstream - are valid.”
- “I don’t think fear should dictate how we seek answers, connect, and help each other heal.”
- “Home is simply any place where you feel seen and welcome.”
- “Sometimes we Canadians live in a bubble, seduced by the illusion of equality.”

The last quote particularly resonates in our increasingly confrontational world. As a cisgender white gay male, I recognize my privilege and the responsibility to use it to support and advocate for the betterment of all humans.

Thank you, Habib, for sharing your incredible story. It was an honor to read your memoir and to learn from your experiences.

4.5 ⭐️