The key takeaway from this book is the paradigm shift in my understanding of the basics regarding conflict management.

One has first to calm down and make peace with oneself. Next, one should recognise the fact that others are also suffering, and it is our job to reduce overall suffering in the world.

I like the concepts like 'Interbeing', 'Fresh Beginning', and 'Peace Treaty', which are part of the book. I like how the author has deconstructed the nature, management and consequences of a fight. It has changed the way I think about a 'fight'.