I admit that I rolled my eyes a bit the first time my friend gave this to read. Me, a self-help book? After the first few pages, however, I was hooked. What I love about this book is that it's not about only attaining the right partner, or how that should be your goal, and this book will help you get there. This book very nicely lays out ideas and pathways for seeing yourself as whole and complete as is, and accepting other people as they are. It's ultimately about how to find more satisfaction and lasting happiness with yourself. I very much enjoyed this, I think it is a useful and fascinating read, and I enjoyed it so much that I will be purchasing my own copy after returning my friend's to her!