SO much more incest than I expected. Like way more. 

I really wish the book focused more on Cal’s life and journey with gender than his complex family dynamics. Still very interesting and well-written, but my favorite parts were when Cal was experimenting with gender and sexuality. I also wish he wasn’t so black and white about it all and became more involved with other queer and intersex people, but I guess his fear of joining the community is one of his flaws. Overall enjoyed but wouldn’t re-read.