BRILLIANT book! it reframed a lot of my personal internalized understanding of cleanliness and organization and how much i've attached it to how good i am as a person. it doesn't have to be that way. in fact, it shouldn't. having a messy room doesn't make you any less valuable. struggling to maintain a consistent routine or task doesn't mean you're a failure. you find the things that work for you. you leave the things that doesn't. be kind to yourself, always!