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When We Were by Diana Elliot Graham

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asspenn's review against another edition

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slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.5

vidotson's review against another edition

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I DNFed once I saw the trigger warnings for SA and rape. Thanks StoryGraph readers for providing that since the plot summary definitely didn’t give off that vibe and I would have hated getting there!

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alyssasyvongsay's review

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? N/A
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

I thought I'd feel more given the other reviews of this book, but I don't?

Overall too much dialogue, and the dual POVs were confusing at times, but I did still like it!

cbrice22's review against another edition

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emotional sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

_chrstnlvly's review against another edition

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emotional sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Reread Review

Unable to escape into sleep the way normal people do, books have been a comfort, the security blanket, therapy I refused to go to. They ask questions but don’t require answers. They make me think but expect nothing in return. And when I wake up in the middle of the night, they are companions that never complain, either keeping me company as I lay awake of lulling me back into a temporary state of rest.

I read this almost two years ago, and the story immediately captivated me. It stuck with me for a long time, and I often think about the characters. With the release of Six Morning Kisses, I decided I wanted to experience the emotional impact of this story again before diving into SMK.

Since this is a reread, I can now offer a more objective perspective. For instance, I realize that Arden

is quite an unlikable character. Josh is immature and selfish, which has been clear from the beginning. However, Arden fails to assert herself when necessary; as a result, Josh continues to treat her as if she were his possession. She had countless opportunities to stand up to him, yet she chose not to. Many people warned her about his behavior, but she ignored their advice, which is ironic since she is portrayed as a smart character. Reid deserved better. Although their breakup is painful to witness, it can be seen as a blessing in disguise for Reid. When I first read this, I felt irritated with Arden, but upon rereading it, I am enraged by her inaction.

In summary:

Josh = d*ck
Arden = ignorant
Reid = perfect

I still had a great time reading it and enjoyed the story just as much as I did the first time. Reading When We Were, although painful, is a worthwhile experience—it exposes you to the realities of love and life. It serves as a reminder that certain events are necessary; they shape us and mold us into who we need to become for our future. Yes, it can be painful, but that is the harsh reality of life. The book also emphasizes the importance of being vigilant about the people you surround yourself with, as they can either uplift or break you and significantly alter the course of your life.

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